pers(one)al

the sense of dependence is not something that had been existed since our first breath of air. though actually, we live depend on the availability of it— the air. but whether we're conscious about it or not, breathing becomes a habit. it is not something that works voluntary; yes, because we can hold our breath. but it's also not something we can stop & live without.

it's written everywhere that we, humans & other earthlings, are social being. as a person, our dependency to other people is absolute. but everyone needs their own time too. to be alone, to see & hear what's on their deepest soul without others' voice, to decide something based on their own pretension.
but overtime, we get clingy. very often, we precede the opinions we got from others until eventually, those opinions obscure our true desire. and we lose it; dreams, desire, the essential things that keep someone solicitous to live. we're no longer who we were. because we let others overtook ourselves. others always say that they know how it feels to be us, but no. we never knew what it's like to be others, and vice versa.

the correlation between people is different with what the air has to do with our existence.
remember:
once in a while, we need our time to be alone.

► "company is okay, solitude is bliss."